Child Support (02/06/14)

Here's the kind of nauseating opinion article from The Guardian that makes me want to laugh and scream, although not necessarily in that order.

Now unlike Sophie Heawood, I've actually used the CSA to recover monies from a stubborn ex-partner and I can honestly say that it was by far the worst, most frustrating, organisation I've ever dealt with in my entire life.

But if I thought I would have received a reliable, professional service by paying a reasonable fee, I would have snatched their hand off in a minute - and been glad that someone was doing the dirty work for me.

Why do people like Sophie Heawood think that the state should pick up the whole tab for the cost of resolving a private dispute between two individuals?

Beggars belief, if you ask me.    

So instead of moaning about her lot in life, I would urge people like Sophie to support much stronger measures to bring 'deadbeat' dads into line, for example by suspending their passports and driving licenses or confiscating luxury goods such as football season tickets or fancy cars - because that would sure shake things up a bit.

As for Sophie Heawood and her ex, 'she picked him' as Judge Judy would say and Sophie knows only well who Judge Judy is because her web site contains the following gushing description of her life and times:

SOPHIE HEAWOOD 

Freelance journalist. I write colums and interview famous creative people for Vice, Guardian, Indepednent, Grazia, Elle,Marie Claire and NME, among others. British, used to live in LA but am now back in London with my two-year-old daughter. 

How lovely and so like The Guardian, but what exactly is Sophie complaining about?

Child maintenance changes risk giving a green light to coercion

Plans to change the Child Support Agency will put pressure on vulnerable parents to accept feeble settlements


By Sophie Heawood - The Guardian

‘The thing about friendly arrangements between people who aren’t very friendly is that they can disappear overnight.’ Photograph: Alamy

Just when you thought our trigger-happy leaders might finally have run out of easy targets – disabled people who can't run from the Atos testers, foster parents to charge with a bedroom tax – it seems they have found another one. Single mums who need help making an absent father pay for his children – it's your turn to feel like a failure. Again.

Under new rules set to come in "this summer" (a date description as vague as the new financial arrangements are to be), the Child Support Agency (CSA) will be dissolved and a new body called the Child Maintenance Service will appear. Couples in need of help will be "encouraged" to come to a private agreement. If they can't, they will be charged a £20 fee to open a new child maintenance case.

But let's say you're a mother whose ex still doesn't cough up and you ask them to make him pay: he'll be charged an extra 20% and you will have 4% of your child's maintenance deducted. The Department for Work and Pensions will be keeping all these fees. The application fee won't apply to domestic violence victims, but collection charges will, if the service has to collect the money from a violent ex. There are so many ways in which this leaves vulnerable families exposed to pressure, or coercion into accepting feeble settlements, it doesn't bear thinking about.

As a single parent, I find it terrifying. My ex and I narrowly avoided all this by sorting out a healthy financial arrangement between ourselves – just as the government would like. But knowing the CSA is there to fall back on has undoubtedly kept me strong during uncertain times.

The thing about friendly arrangements between people who aren't very friendly is that they can disappear overnight. Nobody dreams of going to the CSA – it is already a last resort, and it can be a long struggle to pursue a claim. One friend's ex-partner took advantage of that time delay by dissolving his company and moving his money around so, by the time their case was seen, he looked skint on paper. This man is a successful media figure who appears in the broadsheets and on the BBC.

But the CSA's shortcomings don't mean you should get rid of it altogether. As Fiona Weir, chief executive of single parents charity Gingerbread, said today: "We fear that many parents will be pressured by their ex and by the new charges to stay out of the new system, and instead will enter into a private arrangement that offers no guarantee of regular, reliable income for their children."

A big belch of morality always comes with the Tories' cuts, and this one speaks of adults being reasonable with one another, as if it is the mark of a civilised society that we shouldn't need things like the CSA to exist at all.

Certainly, if you think the mark of civilisation is people being able to grow up and just get along, the CSA won't be something you hold dear. Nor, presumably, will the police be – as you're doubtless able to sort out your own disagreements in other sorts of crimes. A judiciary also won't be of much interest to you, I presume, as your legal battles are always settled out of court, with a slap on the back and a gentlemanly handshake.

In my view, the civilised society is one that formalises the understanding that parents should contribute to their children's upkeep, ideally with their time, love and money – but failing that, just their money. It is good that our society tackles this in a formal way.

So I wonder if our law courts will no longer be available to those wealthy couples who spend months arguing before judges about whether the one with £200m should give their ex more than the £30m they've offered. Are these feuding exes going to be told to get out of our courts and stop wasting our time or risk a fine? Of course not. They're rich.